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14
Mar
12

A Request For Help From Our BS BLOG Readers!

I’d like to take a minute to ask you for your votes, to help my wife’s elementary school (hopefully) win a “Technology Makeover” from Lenovo. The winning school will receive $50,000 worth of laptop computers for the kids. Although it’s a nationwide contest between literally thousands of schools, her school is currently in 4th place in the United States, so your votes will not be wasted – they have a real shot at pulling this off!

To vote for her school, visit Lenovo’s website. You will need to register before voting, but it’s quick and easy. You then vote for drawings that were submitted by students (like the one above). The name of the young (3rd grade) artist who drew this picture is “Tecaela” and she’s in my wife’s class.

To vote for my wife’s school click on “View and Vote” and you will be taken to a section that says, “Find Your School.” Select Washington for state, Bremerton for city, and then West Hills Elementary for school. Then just click on any “West Hills” drawing to display it, and then click “Vote For This Entry.” If you want to vote for Tecaela’s “Rock Star” drawing it’s on page 3 of the West Hills grouping, but any West Hills picture will work. I just thought her drawing fit the BS BLOG quite well :-)

If I can really push the envelope and take advantage of your generosity, you can vote daily (hint-hint). I would also be very grateful for everyone with a Facebook account to share this post on your wall. Just click the “Leave a Comment” link that appears under the post title above, and then click on the “share this” box that will appear directly below this post – and select Facebook.

Thank you very much!

20
Dec
11

Christmas

Thankfully, there’s only a few more days of TV commercials for jewelry, electric shavers and computer-animated polar bears drinking Coca Cola.

Jaded? No. Just not into it. Tired of losing loved ones for the holidays. I’m 3 for 3 so far, and this last one was the straw that broke the camel’s back.

I can’t stand going to the store. Christmas carols playing in the background cloud my vision. I haven’t done any shopping yet, and I’m not sure I am going to. Not out of bitterness or anger. I’m just tired. Very tired. Sad. Unmotivated.

I’m trying to “suck it up” and put on my happy face. It’s not fair to my wife, kids and grandkids to selfishly withdraw; curled up in a fetal position somewhere in the back reaches of my childhood memories – but there I am.

It’s supposed to be getting better. It only gotten worse.

I know it’s time to put on my big-boy pants, quit my whining and get my shit together. Yeah, I know. I know. Maybe tomorrow. Hopefully tomorrow.

07
Nov
11

Together Again

http://www.kitsapsun.com/news/2011/nov/03/paula-m-craig-77/

01
Jul
11

‘Slutwalkers’ Unite To Protest Treatment Of Sexual Assault Victims

Written by, and reprinted with permission from Anni Piper… 

“When I tell people how I spent the Queen’s Birthday weekend this year, the most common reaction is ‘What the heck is “Slutwalk”?’ Read on if you’d like to know……

Slutwalk is a protest against our legal system’s treatment of those who are sexually assaulted. Alongside a large group of others in their fishnets and corsets, I strutted through the streets of Sydney, figuratively giving the finger to those who would judge us on our manner of dress.

The first Slutwalk was organised earlier this year in Toronto, Canada, after a police officer told a group of female university students that they could avoid being sexually assaulted if they “didn’t dress like sluts”. This ignorant attitude is perpetuated daily, and it’s high time we turned it around. Research clearly shows that sex offenders do not target victims according to the clothes they wear, but rather by their vulnerability. Sex offenders target victims when they perceive an opportunity to manipulate them, by force or coercion, into a situation where they will be uninterrupted by witnesses.

I myself am a survivor of childhood sexual assault. In a trial earlier this year, the alleged offender (someone from outside the family) was found not guilty of over 30 counts of child sex offences. There was overwhelming evidence, found by police in this pervert’s bedroom, to prove I was telling the truth & justify the police prosecution. He confessed to police, and his legal team even offered a diminished guilty plea. We chose not to accept it and the case went to trial. What they were offering would have amounted to slap on the wrist and a very short custodial sentence, if any. This “man” should be spending the rest of his life in jail, where he can’t perpetrate against anyone else’s children. But of course, to ensure a “fair trial”, the jury couldn’t hear about his offers of a guilty plea, or of his prior criminal conviction for violence against women (and, of course, the intrinsic design of our wonderful legal system ensures that he did not even have to take the stand, nor be questioned in court in any way about any of the offences)

Before this I had always had faith in the legal system; I believed in the concept of justice. But after ten days of giving evidence, all my faith in our legal system was gone. Shamefully, the defence barrister  was allowed to question me about “how provocative” my manner of dress was as a fourteen year old girl. I was questioned about my album ‘Jailbait’ and its associated logo. I was questioned about whether professional photographs of me from my website were provocative. I was portrayed as a sexually precocious thirteen year old who willfully seduced a man in his forties. What a load of bullshit! I was outraged, not only for myself, but for the 1400 other survivors who go through this every year in NSW alone.

Sexual assault is an especially heinous crime. It’s also the easiest crime of all to get away with, and the predators that commit these crimes know this. Currently, in the NSW District Court, 80% of ‘alleged’ child sex offenders are found not guilty.

As a parent, I find this an alarming statistic. Our police do not press charges in this type of crime unless they are absolutely certain an offence has been committed. Keep in mind that only a small amount of victims ever come forward, and only a fraction of these cases ever go to trial. There is only one way to explain it; sex offenders are getting away with their crimes. The legal system is failing us all – survivors, parents, and our community as a whole.

My song ‘Jailbait’ is based on some of my experiences as a child. Little was I to know that art would imitate life, as per my lyrics:

Judge just set you walkin’ free, when he took one long look at me

As it turns out, in reality that’s exactly what happened. That the jury has very strong belief of guilt is simply not good enough under the current system. Juries are instructed by Judges that they must, beyond all reasonable doubt, be able to prove that each & every charge can be proven beyond all reasonable doubt….something astoundingly difficult to do when physical evidence is often not freely available.

I’m on a mission to end this appalling treatment of sexual assault victims in the legal system. We must stop blaming the victims and start punishing the offenders. How can you help? More details to come soon…..”

For more information about Slutwalk, including upcoming satellite marches in your area, visit Slutwalk’s website here. – SRC

21
Jun
11

The growing culprit behind liver disease – CNN.com

http://www.cnn.com/2011/HEALTH/06/16/liver.disease.ep/

Posted VIA email from www.cnn.com — very interesting article.

18
May
11

Pink Whistles and Call To Action Request

A Washington State high school football referee wears a pink whistle to help promote breast cancer awareness last fall. (KIRO Radio/Jeff Pohjola)

Jeff Pohjola, KIRO 97.3 FM, has reported on MYNorthwest.com that one hundred and fourty-three high school football referees have been severely disciplined by the Washington Officials Association; having the majority of their playoff games revoked for the next two years, loss of pay for those games, and being placed on probation for the next three years.

What did these officials do to warrant such a penalty? Last Fall, for one week, the officials wore pink whistles to help support breast cancer awareness, and donated their game checks to Susan G. Koman for the Cure.

It is the position of the Washington Officials Association that the pink whistles were a violation of the Uniform Code. So instead of admonishing the officials, or perhaps issuing written reprimands with a warning that future violations of the Uniform Code could result in more severe disciplinary action, the WOA has summarily taken away 2 years worth of playoff games from the officials – and the related compensation the officials would have received.

Todd Storhahl, WOA Commissioner has been quoted as saying, ”They chose not to ask for permission, not to go the right route. It sends the wrong message to kids that are playing the game.”

News of the delayed disciplinary action just came to light this week.

Well Todd, you’re right – this has sent a message to the kids playing the game. I’m not sure it’s the right message, but it has been sent. From this blogger’s perspective, the message is that the Washington Officials Association and its, “Uniform Code” are more important that raising awareness for breast cancer. You could have easily taken a formal stand in regards to your position on following the rules with lesser penalties.

Frankly, the punishment doesn’t fit the crime.

On behalf of my blogging partners here on the BS BLOG I would like to enlist the assistance of our visitors. Please click the “Share” button below this post and email this to your friends and family – and ask those who receive it to pass it on as well. Post to Facebook, Digg, StumbleUpon and Reddit. If you have a WordPress blog, use the “Press This” feature to post a link back here.

HERE IS A LINK TO THE WASHINGTON OFFICIALS ASSOCIATION WEBSITE AND THEIR CONTACT INFORMATION PAGE. On this page are email addresses for the WOA President, Vice President, Executive Board Members, Members At Large, and WOA Staff including the WOA Commissioner, and the WOA Director of Operations.

Please send them an email and let them know what you think. If enough of us follow through, maybe they will get our message.

Thank you.

25
Mar
11

Millions Against Monsanto Campaign 2011

Visit Organic Consumers Association for more information

17
Mar
11

A Major Earthquake in North America Imminent?

Yes, the following is from Fox News…but I am familiar with Jim Berkland, and have been aware of his uncanny earthquate predictions for quite some time.

Check out this video, and watch it through to the end.

Is it our turn next?

11
Mar
11

What’s My Dad Doing on Facebook?

What’s My Dad Doing on Facebook?

Reposted using the Press This feature from WordPress.

From the blog FRANCOPOLIS




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